On Easter Sunday, 1989, I wandered into a wonderful church and heard the pastor tell me that I could be forgiven and saved by grace; I didn’t have to do it myself. That day my scarlet sins became white as snow. And for the next ten years, I went through God’s training program, conducted by the people of the church. Little did I know that God was preparing me to speak to millions of women and that I would be an instrument to help heal their scars from abortion, drugs, and sinful living. Nor did I know that He was also preparing me to be the wife of Jim Bakker. But I’m beginning to learn that broken and wounded people make the best healers. Continue reading
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Jesus is the Bridge
The Bible says that if we say we are without sin, we are fooling ourselves and the truth is not in us (1 John 1:8, Romans 3:10, James 3:2). There have been times in my life that I needed great grace and even now, today, I am an imperfect man. I have sinned – I am a sinner – no doubt about it.
This grace I need has a name – and his name is Jesus. Jesus is the bridge that connects us, even though we are sinners, to our Father God. It took two pieces of wood and three nails to build this bridge. It’s a holy bridge – one of supreme sacrifice for our sins.
I need Jesus – and I need His Grace on a daily basis. I remember a time when I thought I had sinned so badly that even Jesus had left me. But in my darkest hours, He assured me that He would NEVER, NEVER, NEVER leave me nor forsake me (Hebrews 13:5). I am His, and He is mine – and nothing will ever change that fact.
Yet, I am mystified that there are other Christians who want to blow up this bridge of forgiveness and reconciliation to our Father – a bridge that they themselves or maybe someone very close to them may need to cross over sometime in their lives.
There are people who want to condemn others who have sinned, and think themselves better off because their particular sin is not the one they are condemning. Most often, when the perspective changes to yourself or others you love, the bridge will be in tact.
As soon as pride lifts its head, especially in the area of who and what the Blood of Jesus will or will not cover, you can be sure that Grace will much more abound (Romans 5:20).
Don’t blow up a bridge that you, yourself, or your loved one may need to cross at some point in their lives. Others have crossed over this bridge, and it is on the road to their salvation.
If we need one thing in the End Times, it’s Grace and Love. And we ALL need the Bridge by which we can be forgiven – Jesus.
Love,
Forgiveness 101
Forgiveness is a hefty topic and there is a great deal written about it and a plethora of different opinions. Whatever a person has a mind to do, they will probably find enough documentation, pro and con, to do it. If someone wants to hang on to unforgiveness, they will find a way to support their intention. And vice-versa. If one has a heart to forgive, they will find a way to do it, even when it seems impossible.
I’m often amazed when I hear other Christians talk about forgiveness as if it is an option. That’s not what God’s Word says! Forgiveness is a foundational, fundamental instruction in Christianity.
Forgiveness is about humility. It’s about knowing that all have sinned and come short of God’s glory.
Forgiveness is about mercy. It’s about knowing that you, yourself, are a sinner and that had God not had mercy on you, you would be headed for an eternity in hell.
Forgiveness is about the law of love. God so loved the world (YOU!) that He gave His Only Begotten Son! Why? So that you could be forgiven.
It’s about knowing that if you do not forgive, your Father in Heaven will not forgive you. Matthew 6:14-15 says, “For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you: But if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.”
You see, if you’re asking the question “do I HAVE TO forgive” this person?” then your heart isn’t where it should be in the first place – because out of the heart, the mouth speaks. (Luke 6:25) When your heart is right, even when things may seem very difficult, you will want to do as Jesus did when He said, “Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do!”
Forgiveness is not however, acknowledging that what the offender did was right or that you accept what they did. But it is giving up the pursuit of retribution.
I remember when I first read “I Was Wrong,” the book Jim wrote when he got out of prison. I was stunned at the level of forgiveness that Jim had exhibited towards his persecutors. He completely and thoroughly forgave every single act of malice, every reviling word, and every betrayal. I didn’t know how in the world he could do it.
But you see, Jim knew what the Word said and he set his heart in agreement with it. When you purpose in your heart (your spirit) to do something; your soul will follow (your mind, your will, and your emotions).
Forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us.
I need my trespasses forgiven, don’t you? I need all the grace, mercy and love that I can get – so I have to be willing to give it! That’s why I will purpose in my heart to forgive – and trust my Lord to make that a reality in my words and in my behaviors. When I meet Jesus on the other side, I want my hands clean and my heart pure.
Amen?
